50 Words That Describe the Ideal Marriage

Discover what it would take to have your dream marriage

I’ve learned that when we come into marriage we all have our own expectations and ideas about how the ideal marriage should work. We all want the same thing—a good marriage, a happy marriage, a lasting and fulfilling marriage—but we have different ideas on what gets us there.

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My wife Stephana and I didn’t really talk about this before we got married, and it was years into our marriage before we began to do so. We got married and just went on expecting things to end up “happily ever after” because that’s what we both wanted, even though we didn’t discuss it. Nope, didn’t happen.

We soon began to realize the things I thought were most important and essential for our marriage to work weren’t always the things she saw. After plenty of mistakes, many frustrations, and much counsel we began to grow in this area and eventually learned what made it possible for us to have that good, happy, lasting and fulfilling marriage.

Recently, I wanted to find out what others thought made up a great marriage, or the ideal marriage. So, I sent out this question:

“What two words would you use to describe the ideal marriage?”

And just like with Stephana and myself, there were many different thoughts and opinions on how to have that “ideal marriage.” One person even said there is no ideal marriage, but “adventurous experiments.” After reading through all of the responses to my question, I decided to compile them in a list of 50 words that describe the ideal marriage.

  1. Compromise
  2. Dedication
  3. Humor-filled
  4. Christ-centered
  5. Respectful
  6. Godly
  7. Safe
  8. Effort
  9. Acceptance
  10. Great sex!
  11. Patience
  12. Perseverance
  13. Silly
  14. Loyalty
  15. Dedication
  16. Communication
  17. Honest
  18. Fun
  19. God-ordained
  20. Laughter
  21. Kindness
  22. Forgiving
  23. Understanding
  24. Passionate
  25. Gracious
  26. God
  27. Friendship
  28. Familiar
  29. Relaxed
  30. Faithfulness
  31. Truth
  32. Consistency
  33. Love
  34. Hope
  35. Commitment
  36. Sacrifice
  37. Open-minded
  38. God’s love
  39. Togetherness
  40. Oneness
  41. Best friends
  42. Partnership
  43. Self-awareness
  44. Partners
  45. God-sent
  46. Blessed
  47. Influential
  48. Grace-filled
  49. Caring
  50. Serving

Whether you agree or disagree with the words above, it helps to pose the question in your own marriage. Maybe you and your spouse are wanting the same thing, but not sure how to get there together. Understanding what makes the ideal marriage is a key to help you on this journey.

I encourage you to read this list together, discuss it, and make sure you are taking the steps toward your ideal marriage.

Question: What words would you use to describe the ideal marriage? Do these words describe your marriage now? You can leave a comment by clicking here.

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4 thoughts on “50 Words That Describe the Ideal Marriage

  1. We married when I was 20 and began our family. Our third child was born disabled. He struggles every day. We look for any and all things that might help him. Life became more difficult with everypassing day. We were very careful financially, but the $60,000 in medical per year took it’s tool. Although our credit scores remain in the 800’s, I am fearful everyday about our future. My husband does not feel the fear I feel. We have grown apart, without even realizing, while we focused on our son. The middle class people have been forgotten. My husband makes too much for any help. He makes too little to cover all the hardships. We always helped others when we were able. We paid other middle class family’s mortgage, bought Christmas gifts for families we knew struggling and made car payments for those in need when we barely could do so. There is no help for us. It hurts to know people do not know what to do with all their money but our son is supposed to do without care that could be beneficial. Insurance denials from insurance started since some were for behavioral health. “Not medically necessary” as far as one individual in another state decided. We pushed forward. Doctor and staff missed giving meds for several weeks and over medicated trying to figure out the problem. Hospital bills began after that occurred. No one is held accountable when they make mistakes, and they have money. The downward spiral continues and my fear and anxiety is almost unbearable. Marriage must be indestructable for withstand the unpredictable! Will ours be, while being the strong marriage others admire and want to replicate? I do not know. Uncertainty is all I see. . .

  2. Love it! Great post Jackie – once again!

    Man, I can honestly say that I can apply most of those words to my marriage, but there’s one you didn’t post that applies to me – Crazy! lol.. J/k. Truth is, though, that marriage is kind of crazy. After 27 years of having a great marriage, I continue to learn things about my wife I didn’t really know. If that’s not weird, we all change, and so some things I knew she liked, now I’m discovering that she doesn’t like them – anymore. Ugh! Sometimes it makes you wonder if you are going crazy… lol.

    All goofiness aside, we all continue to change – like, from faith to faith; from glory to glory. So yes, we’re not the same couple we were 27 years ago, not even two years ago. It’s a crazy walk because it takes a crazy love to give of yourself in order to complete someone else – like your spouse. It reminds me of the book: Crazy Love by Francis Chan – great source regarding the love of God.

    Anyway, thanks again. I’ll go over the list with my wife some time soon. It always helps to improve those areas you feel strong about and make them better.