You’re not interested in your spouse’s hobbies…what do you do?

It’s Friday and that means my friend Shawn Snyder, from The Odd Couple Blog, and I are teaming up on our weekly marriage blog.  Shawn will share her thoughts (in green) on the topic through the eyes of a woman/wife, and I’ll share mine (in blue) through the eyes of a man/husband.  This week’s topic is Should Spouses Have Separate Hobbies.  Enjoy!

In marriage 2 become 1

What do you do when your spouse has hobbies and interests that you do not care for?  What happens when he/she has no interest in the things you like to do?  Is that okay in a marriage, or should you do something about it?

The Ultimate Merger

When two people come together in marriage you are literally bringing two different worlds together, and attempting to co-exist in a way that both people are better off.  No easy task.  The husband has a unique personality, background, and interest.  And so does the wife.  

However, you are to become one. So what do you do when your wife doesn’t want anything to do with something you are very passionate about and enjoy spending time doing?  Wives, what happens when your husband runs the other way when you want to do your favorite things.  Are you okay with that?  Should you be okay with it?  How should you handle it?

First, I don’t think this is uncommon.  As said before, marriage brings two completely different people together to function as one.  So be encouraged if you are constantly going in opposite directions in relation to your favorite interests.  You are not alone.  There are a few things you should do when you face this.

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Show respect

The worst thing you can do, and belittle, mock or show distaste for their hobby.  If your spouse loves it and you don’t, at a minimum respect it.  That means if it is watching sports, then show respect by not interrupting or trying to distract from his/her time.  If it is working out, then arrange things so they can work out.  Encourage their efforts even if you are allergic to the gym.

Learn more

Why does your spouse have an interest in this?  Find out.  If your spouse likes to spend time doing something, when you learn more about it you have the opportunity to learn more about your spouse. What makes this so intriguing to them, and might I become interested in it as well?  You just might, and this may lead to you both enjoying the same hobby.  However, if he/she wants this hobby to be their “personal” hobby then you have to respect that.

Find common interests

Even if you show respect and learn more, you still may be worlds apart when it comes to certain hobbies and things you like to do.  That is still okay.  At this point you should begin to find or develop common interests and hobbies.  I suggested in last week’s marriage series post that you find something that both of you have no experience, and learn it/do it together.  I’ve witnessed this developing of common interest in my parent’s marriage of 48 years.

So yes, you should do something about having different hobbies than your spouse.  Ultimately whatever you do should lead to your relationship growing in respect, understanding, and becoming closer.

Question:  What different hobbies do you and your spouse have?  How have you handled that in the past, and how will you handle it now?  Please share it the comment section below.

Shawn’s turn:

Individual Time

If you have read many of my blogs or followed me at all you know that I think married people should do many things together. There are times that you can grow as a couple and enjoy experiences as one. However, I do think that we are individuals and there are times that we need be with friends or family doing things that we enjoy without expecting our spouse to be right there.

Separate but Together

My hubby and I do enjoy doing some things that the other one is not into. So, we have times that we do separate activities that we enjoy and then we can come back together and share what we did and the fun we had sharing the joy of being out and experiencing different things. I love going to our city’s botanic garden and seeing the different gardens. My hubby enjoys tearing down an engine and rebuilding it. Neither one of us really has a burning desire to accompany the other during these events but we wouldn’t want to ask each other to give them up either.

Recharge and Create

Doing things separately also gives the individual time to recharge. We need to keep our own creative tanks full so that we can be a better spouse to our mates. Whatever your hobby or creative release is participating in it keeps us happy and healthy so we are in a position to feel better about ourselves and desire to make others in our lives feel the same.

Best of Both Worlds

The only concern that I have about writing about having separate hobbies is when one partner or the other turns the experience of time apart into always being away. If you always golf during the only time your spouse is home or you work out at the gym every night while your spouse sits at home then that is unhealthy for your marriage. Be mindful of including time for just you and the hobby you enjoy and also have some good bonding time for your partner and you will have found the best of both worlds.

Please share if you found a way for both you and your spouse to enjoy separate hobbies but still come together at the end of the day?   SPACE

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  • Kathryne Elizabeth Stanco

    … I should mention this is Pokémon go he’s obsessed with . I’ve tried to join my husbands hobby but it’s like every time I do he takes it as an opportunity to play more . Trust me we have even had the “you need to block off time ” discussion.. he then either agrees and doesn’t follow through and then gets mad every time I tell him to put his phone away during family time … or he gets mad because I don’t say anything about it but I walk away and I get annoyed

  • Aim

    Well I’ve done the unthinkable I’ve cheated and now that it’s been found out he’s still staying. But what is the real problem is it the fact that we never share in things the other person may like doing even if they don’t. Or is it the lack of romance that should have always been there. Being married for 11 years with 2 kids and at five going to counseling for a lie of money (car) and still not working out our problems. Still not seeing the bigger picture. I know what I did was wrong I have excepted that and if I could take it back I would. But I can’t… I’ve done things he likes I’ve been there for him. But when it becomes the movie The Brake Up… then you know there is problems, when u can watch that movie and stay that’s my life. Then and only then do u start to think that nothing will or as ever changed. I love my husband with all my heart and it was just a bad judgement and a one night thing. That I have regretted that’s why he didn’t find out until four months later because I was sorry… I was hoping he would have never found out. But now he brings up doing things I like to do but doing them by himself (working out) is this to throw it back in my face. Why now when I’ve done this from the day we met. It hurts when is it on his terms like having another child when he wants it. I’m tried of always being the one that shows up for the other person. I just hope that we still have love to try and if not hopefully we can be friends and raise our kids together. This sucks because if I say things like why didn’t you do that in the beginning I’m wrong now because of what I’ve done. I just think that marriage is a one way street and u both have to be on it to make it work. You can’t always be the one who always sacrifices for the other person. Thanks for reading.

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    My wife sings in a ladies barber shop group. She is much younger than everyone else in this group and they are like vampires sucking her youth from her. She now dresses like an old hag and refuses to make friends with anyone her own age. Her life is now devoted to making these old cronies happy. Her devotion to “The Sweet Adelines” is destroying our relationship. These old hags seem to have a Jim Jones or David Karesh type of hold on her. Nothing is more important than this blood sucking group of antique women trying to live vicariously thru younger women. I can’t figure a way to convince her
    of the damage they cause to our marriage. Any ideas?

  • mille100piedi .

    I don’t want my husband being interested in my hobbies, I have many interests in hobbies and interests he has none, he is very lazy and watch tons of movies. I don’t care if he watches tv but he wants me watch tv with him and this prevent me to dedicate my time to my hobbies.

    • Interesting. Thanks for sharing. So, are you more interested in pleasing you, or pleasing your husband? The marriages that work best focus on serving, loving, and meeting the needs of the other person more than yourself.

      • mille100piedi

        the marriages that work best is the one where both are happy. If your partner has unhealthy habits do you think it is a good idea to join him/her? Watching movies all day is not healthy and I have already gain 20 kilos in 2 years because of my sedentary life. I have muscle dystrophy so it takes a lot of motivation trying to be active physically and mentally. My husband has is own healthy issue as well, but if he is not motivated to make changes in is own life he can’t pretend me to not take the chance to improve my life. By they way he is not working and I am the one that support both financially, this is because I am not lazy and I am doing my best to have good food, a nice house and all the things one need for a comfortable living. So I really think I meet his needs more then he meets mine….

        • Thanks again for sharing. I think a husband should have a heart for his wife’s needs and vice versa, and be intentional about meeting those needs as best he can and vice versa. Here is a good passage on love that models how we should relate to our spouses: “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.”

  • Monique Sheff

    My soon to be husband hates that I ride a Harley he almost died on a bike and now has a bitter tast in his mouth about it wants no part of it and wants me to give it up my family are all riders and we enjoy going on benifit rides and raising money for a cause it’s spiritually uplifting it’s just something I love to do he set out wedding date for the weekend of my daughters fathers benifit ride he died last year and this will be the 2nd benifit ride to raise money for his 3 children one of them being my daughter I feel obligated to be at the ride but he wants to get married on that date am I being selfish to be upset about this am I being selfish should I get married and not go on the ride ugh I’m so distraught about this issue plz help I need advice

    • Wow. Tough situation. I would say if you both aren’t sure what is most important (getting married or doing a benefit ride), then you may want to look deeper into your relationship prior to getting married, and what you both really want (marriage or not). This will not be the first time this type of conflict comes up. Better to catch it and address it now and determine what you both want.

    • Samantha Miller

      If biking is that important to you, then don’t marry him. I went through a similar marriage where spouse and I can’t connect on my most keen interests. Its a real pain. Life has no meaning it seems where I can’t share my favorite moments with my spouse. Yes, it will hurt like hell today, but at least you don’t have to spend a lifetime with pain and regret everyday. Trust me.

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  • TheEndGameIsNear

    What do you do when your husband had tons of shared hobbies when you met and now his only hobby is video games? The kind where there is more chat than game?

    We used to skate, play street hockey, make music, and walk or go out together and now my life is in bed waiting for nothing.

    I miss my spouse so much. It isn’t as if there is another woman I might confront.

  • Anna

    I’m sorry because I know this is going to be a log to read… But I truly need advice on what to do. My husband and I have own a business together. We bothe worked there before the kids were born but now I stay at home. I have been a stay at home mom now for about 9 years. One of our children has special needs. My husband is a wonderful man. He is good hearted, honest, loyal and a very hard worker. I am not perfect but I am very attentive to my husband and cater to him a lot. I cook, clean, shop, I lay out his clothes, pack his lunches, put special events in his calendar, I do all the doctor/dentist/neurologist/speech therapy trips, I keep up with the medicines, deodorant, toothpaste, do homework/projects with the kids… I do everything as far as operating OUR home life. The kids are my JOB… and I’m okay with that. My husband has 3 things HE loves to do. 1-work (which can turn into to 1 or 2 am or more at times but is usually at least 8pm or later 75% of the time 2-go to the gym(3 mornings a week/no matter what else is going on) (he does cook breakfast but that’s mostly because I’m.busy getting kids dressed etc and he doesn’t like to do that part so he will do the breakfast, which I always make sure to thank him for) and 3- ride his dirt bike. He had always had Tohs as I call them. Recently it has become a problem for me. He decided to purchase a brand new dirt bike. Okay fine. (Please note that this financial commitment has but a little strain on what I am allowed to spend for family expenses- he complains constantly about grocery expense and why did we need this or that- these are not expenditures for me personally but for our family I might add) Even before this purchase he would spend hours on end in the evenings watching race videos and talking shop so to speak with his riding buddies. Laying in bed on his phone until the early hours of the morning. Since getting the new bike he rides at least 1 day a week. Usually Saturday or Sunday. A few things to note: We have an above ground pool that the kids used almost every day last summer. I have been asking him to help me clean it so that the kids could get in it on saturdays while he is riding… he wanted to tear down because he said they didn’t really use it that much. We have a hot tub that needs a part to work. I am not knowledgeable about those kinds of things and have been asking him to please fix it because he kids like to play in it. It hasn’t worked in almost a year. We also have a boat that we purchased a few years back so that we could spend time as a family on the lake during the weekends. Now he has made the statement that we should just sell the boat because it’s too much work to keep up. (Also just so you see where I’m going here… He used to want to wake board everytime we got on the water. If he didn’t he would complain about how he wished he would get some time to do what he really wanted me to pull him and didn’t want to have to just pull kids on the tube all day) His “NEED” for his own personal free time is becoming ridiculous… in my opinion. In the past few weeks (end of the school year for my kids/ baseball etc) during the weekends (I’m not even counting the weekdays- although he rides some on those days too if he can take a day off) I have taken the kids to practices, birthday parties, to spend time with his parents (without him cause he’s riding), have done the conference’s and ISO meetings, taken them to the movies, to GirlScouts, to hitting lessons, to haircuts, to doctors appts, to get shoes, to graduation parties etc… ALL BY MYSELF. I load coolers and clean helmets and cleats, pack ball bags, load and unload day after day. I help my kids pick their clothes for the next day, pack their backpacks and sign everything I need to sign. It’s my JOB. He gets seriously angry with me if I say we need to discuss the amount of time he is gone. When he goes to ride his bike he is gone ALL DAY… Like leaves at 7:30/8:00 am and gets home at 11:00 pm or later. By then it’s bedtime for me and usually the kids are already asleep. When you consider that this is on a Saturday or Sunday that leaves 1 day for him to cram in some family time. Usually he does but of course he’s tired… Because he didn’t get home until late or because he is exhausted. He says to me why don’t you take a day for you but my days are not endless. Plus, truthfully, I don’t want to spend my time without him because I don’t get to spend much time with him as it is. He makes me crazy. I feel like I’m the bad guy because it bothers me that he always chooses doing something for himself. Plus he comments about how all this friends wives ask where I’m at and how they sure wish I would come. Well yes that’s fun for me… Watching the kids rude while he rides and making sandwiches and taking them to the bathroom and wrestling with the gear etc. I don’t mind sometimes but it’s alot of work. It’s not like it’s a “fun day” for all of us. Plus I have commitments with my kids… Like practice and birthday parties etc. If he’s not gonna be here its really not a choice. Somebody has to take them and that’s my JOB. I said why don’t we get a 4-wgeeler so we can all go ride and then we will be together. He was like okay yeah I want y’all to go. Then last night he said well I mean I like to RIDE when I go… My buddies are just watching their kids race etc… They don’t like to ride like me. So I contemplated to myself did that mean now he doesn’t want us to go because we would hinder him from getting to just RIDE? It’s becoming clear to me he isn’t getting the boat ready for the water because that might interfere with his riding time. Let me also say that he basicallh started pouting and said I mean can I not have just 1 day a week for me? Am I wrong to be hurt by his behavior? To feel like we are less of a priority than his time for himself? Let me add also that he missed Field day for our kids because be didn’t want to miss going to the gym. Which if it’s gym day he doesn’t mind being late to work…. But he can’t be late to do something g with me or for me. He makes me feel like I’m cheating him out of what he deserves. I am at a loss. I’m 100% sure if it was the other way around he would not be happy either. And to top it off this also means there are no date nights or evenings spent with friends at the house… Because if you don’t come home until after 11 pm there’s not really any time left. I’m not saying he’s a bad man or even a horrible husband… But this selfish behavior is really weighing on me and my heart. My kids miss him. They used to ask all the time when he would be home now they just kind of know. I mean they are OUR kids… Not just mine. He works, but believe me I do to. I don’t get sick days or holidays… Matter if fact… Those are even more work for me. When is OUR time. Why is it that I’m being unfair when I am upset about him being gone all the time and basically pushing my requests or needs to the back burner? Why doesn’t he choose me sometimes? Why is the gym more important than his kids field day? What the hell is happening to my husband? The devoted father and my best friend? He’s Turning into a selfish crybaby. Ugghhhh… Please give me some insight as to what I can do to make this better.

  • Anna

    My husband and I have own a business together. We bothe worked there before the kids were born but now I stay at home. I have been a stay at home mom now for about 9 years. One of our children has special needs. My husband is a wonderful man. He is good hearted, honest, loyal and a very hard worker. I am not perfect but I am very attentive to my husband and cater to him a lot. I cook, clean, shop, I lay out his clothes, pack his lunches, put special events in his calendar, I do all the doctor/dentist/neurologist/speech therapy trips, I keep up with the medicines, deodorant, toothpaste, do homework/projects with the kids… I do everything as far as operating OUR home life. The kids are my JOB… and I’m okay with that. My husband has 3 things HE loves to do. 1-work (which can turn into to 1 or 2 am or more at times but is usually at least 8pm or later 75% of the time 2-go to the gym(3 mornings a week/no matter what else is going on) (he does cook breakfast but that’s mostly because I’m.busy getting kids dressed etc and he doesn’t like to do that part so he will do the breakfast, which I always make sure to thank him for) and 3- ride his dirt bike. He had always had Tohs as I call them. Recently it has become a problem for me. He decided to purchase a brand new dirt bike. Okay fine. (Please note that this financial commitment has but a little strain on what I am allowed to spend for family expenses- he complains constantly about grocery expense and why did we need this or that- these are not expenditures for me personally but for our family I might add) Even before this purchase he would spend hours on end in the evenings watching race videos and talking shop so to speak with his riding buddies. Laying in bed on his phone until the early hours of the morning. Since getting the new bike he rides at least 1 day a week. Usually Saturday or Sunday. A few things to note: We have an above ground pool that the kids used almost every day last summer. I have been asking him to help me clean it so that the kids could get in it on saturdays while he is riding… he wanted to tear down because he said they didn’t really use it that much. We have a hot tub that needs a part to work. I am not knowledgeable about those kinds of things and have been asking him to please fix it because he kids like to play in it. It hasn’t worked in almost a year. We also have a boat that we purchased a few years back so that we could spend time as a family on the lake during the weekends. Now he has made the statement that we should just sell the boat because it’s too much work to keep up. (Also just so you see where I’m going here… He used to want to wake board everytime we got on the water. If he didn’t he would complain about how he wished he would get some time to do what he really wanted me to pull him and didn’t want to have to just pull kids on the tube all day) His “NEED” for his own personal free time is becoming ridiculous… in my opinion. In the past few weeks (end of the school year for my kids/ baseball etc) during the weekends (I’m not even counting the weekdays- although he rides some on those days too if he can take a day off) I have taken the kids to practices, birthday parties, to spend time with his parents (without him cause he’s riding), have done the conference’s and ISO meetings, taken them to the movies, to GirlScouts, to hitting lessons, to haircuts, to doctors appts, to get shoes, to graduation parties etc… ALL BY MYSELF. I load coolers and clean helmets and cleats, pack ball bags, load and unload day after day. I help my kids pick their clothes for the next day, pack their backpacks and sign everything I need to sign. It’s my JOB. He gets seriously angry with me if I say we need to discuss the amount of time he is gone. When he goes to ride his bike he is gone ALL DAY… Like leaves at 7:30/8:00 am and gets home at 11:00 pm or later. By then it’s bedtime for me and usually the kids are already asleep. When you consider that this is on a Saturday or Sunday that leaves 1 day for him to cram in some family time. Usually he does but of course he’s tired… Because he didn’t get home until late or because he is exhausted. He says to me why don’t you take a day for you but my days are not endless. Plus, truthfully, I don’t want to spend my time without him because I don’t get to spend much time with him as it is. He makes me crazy. I feel like I’m the bad guy because it bothers me that he always chooses doing something for himself. Plus he comments about how all this friends wives ask where I’m at and how they sure wish I would come. Well yes that’s fun for me… Watching the kids rude while he rides and making sandwiches and taking them to the bathroom and wrestling with the gear etc. I don’t mind sometimes but it’s alot of work. It’s not like it’s a “fun day” for all of us. Plus I have commitments with my kids… Like practice and birthday parties etc. If he’s not gonna be here its really not a choice. Somebody has to take them and that’s my JOB. I said why don’t we get a 4-wgeeler so we can all go ride and then we will be together. He was like okay yeah I want y’all to go. Then last night he said well I mean I like to RIDE when I go… My buddies are just watching their kids race etc… They don’t like to ride like me. So I contemplated to myself did that mean now he doesn’t want us to go because we would hinder him from getting to just RIDE? It’s becoming clear to me he isn’t getting the boat ready for the water because that might interfere with his riding time. Let me also say that he basicallh started pouting and said I mean can I not have just 1 day a week for me? Am I wrong to be hurt by his behavior? To feel like we are less of a priority than his time for himself? Let me add also that he missed Field day for our kids because be didn’t want to miss going to the gym. Which if it’s gym day he doesn’t mind being late to work…. But he can’t be late to do something g with me or for me. He makes me feel like I’m cheating him out of what he deserves. I am at a loss. I’m 100% sure if it was the other way around he would not be happy either. And to top it off this also means there are no date nights or evenings spent with friends at the house… Because if you don’t come home until after 11 pm there’s not really any time left. I’m not saying he’s a bad man or even a horrible husband… But this selfish behavior is really weighing on me and my heart. My kids miss him. They used to ask all the time when he would be home now they just kind of know. I mean they are OUR kids… Not just mine. He works, but believe me I do to. I don’t get sick days or holidays… Matter if fact… Those are even more work for me. When is OUR time. Why is it that I’m being unfair when I am upset about him being gone all the time and basically pushing my requests or needs to the back burner? Why doesn’t he choose me sometimes? Why is the gym more important than his kids field day? What the hell is happening to my husband? The devoted father and my best friend? He’s Turning into a selfish crybaby. Ugghhhh… Please give me some insight as to what I can do to make this better.

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  • Hi Sara, perhaps you can create/find some activities. The only way to do that is spend time together, communicate, and try different things. I think over time you’ll find something, and at a minimum get to spend a lot of time doing things together while searching. 🙂

  • John

    We have been married 29 years, I really enjoy home remodeling, carpentry and working on our houses. My wife is an avid hiker.. she always complains about my home renovation projects even though they turn out great, benefit us both, and we have always made a ton of money in sweat equity.. I never stop her from pursuing her activities, and encourage her, yet she has always complains about any projects I want to complete… I love working with my hands so much, and everybody that see’s my work absolutely loves it too, but she fights me tooth and nail the entire time???? I try to involve her but, she just says, do what you want…

    • Thanks for joining the conversation, John. It sounds like you really love home remodeling. Reminds me and my love of basketball and baseball (for myself and for our two sons). The amount of time I have spent playing, coaching, and enjoying sports has been a challenge for us on occasion. The main reason is because I was spending more time (and money) on it) than with my wife. Do you spend more time on your home modeling projects than you do with your wife? If so, perhaps you could reverse that and spend more time with your wife?

      • MrJohnMacarron

        I’m having a similar problem.
        My wife always seems to bash down the things I like, we’ve been together for 11 years (I’m 27) so right now I have no friends or people to talk to except for my work colleagues, we’ve been together since we were very young (I was 16 and she was 17).

        As an example I like sci-fi series. I like to watch 1 or 2 episodes per week but eveytime i do I feel she gets angry because she couldn’t go out – to the cafe – to smoke and talk. I get that she doesn’t like to watch series but at least she should let me watch without this psychological pressure. I let her watch her stuff, i participate in all her activities and talks (even if i don’t like to talk about it, i try to learn more so i can participate too). Yet when I’m with my brother and we talk about something she is not into, she gives me that face and clearly says our conversation sucks and tells us to change the subject.

        As another example, in 2014 I had planned to go to a Linkin Park show with my brother and my sister-in-law, Linkin Park is my all time favorite band and it would be my first LP show. At that time she said she would go with me but we had to stay in the back because she is claustrophobic and doesn’t like the band.

        I didn’t want to stay in the back so I told her not to go or if she did i would go to the front, after all the fights she made me give up and my brother went with his wife. Now after Chester’s death i’m feeling really bad for that decision because i know it was one thing i really wanted and i gave up because of her and i will never get the chance to see them again.

        As a side note i went to several shows with her of bands and singers i don’t really appreciate but i learned the songs to sing with her and to enjoy too.

        I just don’t see any effort from her regarding my tastes. She says my tastes are stupid, what i do is stupid and that i’m childish for liking certain stuff.

        Now she wants to have kids, she says she loves me. I told her i’m not ready to have kids 2 weeks ago and when i feel i’m ready that i will tell her but i don’t want to feel pressured. On the last 2 weeks after this conversation she already brought up the kids conversation over 10 times…

        I am confused and don’t know if i can continue on this relationship for much longer…What should i do?

  • Kelly

    My husband enjoys staying at home and on the Internet till 2am. I like to sing and dance and be around people. We’ve been married ten years and have 5 children. No dates, just sitting in front of the computer. I feel if I do my interest then I might meet someone else. I want to be with him but he said I’m clingy and just do what I want, one instance I did. Then he cheated and said he felt neglected. I don’t know what to do I’m only 32 and we just seem to grow apart.

    • Sorry to hear this, Kelly. We do a webinar where we touch on the topic of trust and how to grow together not a part. I think the info we share would be beneficial to you. If you want to check it out go to jackiebledsoe.com/free-webinar

    • TheEndGameIsNear

      Let these gamer losers go back to fap.

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  • Gail

    My husband is a biker. He goes to rallys. And I really dont like it. He goes for a whole weekend. When he gets home all he says it was nice. On the last rally my biggest fear came true. I got a call from a good source saying she saw him with another chick. He obviously denies this. I hate rallys. And iv asked him not to attend any more rallys, while I stay home with the kids. Our marriage is in trouble. He refuse to give up on his rallys. He choose the rally over our marriage. He uses his bike for commuting. But also some times go for a drive to visit his friends. Am I wrong to ask him to choose between rallys and our marriage? Coz I did and he choose rally

    • Is it a possibility for you to go to the rallys with him?

  • Erica

    Husband broke up with me few months ago, we were in love, we were happy and everything was perfect not until he started dating my best friend, I cry myself to sleep every night, I tried everything to get him back. It looks like its hopeless, He spends time with my best friend and not me. I miss him so incredibly much and everyday, he was a great guy and I needed him back and i never thought possible that Dr Mack can restore broken relationship! At first I was scared cos I read a lots of stories of fake spell casters, scams and i never really believed in magic but I played along with a little faith, the love spell worked like a magic, 3 days after the love spell was done Dr Mack made my Husband to come back to me with greater love, i was happy, I was floored that his spells worked, everything felt dreamy and unbelievable, please if you have the same issues Email….( dr.mac@yahoo .com 😉

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  • My husband and I have been married 37 (WOW) years. Backpacking & enjoying the outdoors drew us together in dating and early marriage. We were amazed, and grateful, that over the years we continued to develop interests that were similar or parallel. When our kids were school age, Mark developed in interest in gardening, and I loved planting herbs and flowers…we would be in the backyard at the same time, usually with some help from the kids.

    My husband is an avid hunter–I have joined him on bird hunts, and love being outdoors. But I have no interest in shooting. Going to the gun range is a great stress reliever for him. Again, I have gone and tried, and it just doesn’t float my boat. But I am happy for him to go, or even encourage him to go if he’s had a frustrating day.

    I think the point is to continue exploring together, but not everything has to be done together.

    Thanks for the thoughts!

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  • Mark Holroyd

    So unhelpful. All this article has done is state the plain obvious

  • MrsMush

    My husband is into cars…. but not just as a hobby but it pretty much has became his life. Everything he talks about, does, and shows excitement is his car. I have never seen him as excited or happy with us and the kids when we do things unless it is related to his hobby. He would spend any kind of money, or time, travel, take days off so he can work on his car. But when it comes to family vacations or spending on other things he has a problem with it. I’ve been very supportive and even gone to some car shows with him, but lately it has become like an addiction to him and I’m over it. I’ve been begging him to plan some trips this hear and he won’t do it because of money, but then he spends $6k on wheels and tires. It is very frustrating.

  • Kristie Busch

    This is a good article. My husband is simply not interested in my hobbies/ interests at all. Since the beginning, I’ve tried to participate and show interest in what he likes (football, tablet/ phone games & the occasional fishing, things I didn’t care for before), because I love him. I enjoy doing those things with him, I want to spend time with him. He on the other hand would make fun of mine, or say ” I don’t like it, so why should I do it/ or try it”. Or “if you find something more interesting to do I might do it”. Eventually I gave up on my hobbies: 1) Got tired of being made fun of. 2) I felt if we lived 2 separate lives, what’s the point of being married. We both work full time etc, and wouldn’t have time to really connect. Yes, it was my choice, but I feel resentful now. Instead of the healthy activities I enjoyed, ive developed unhealthy activites plus gained weight. I just think some people only care about themselves, and he’s one of them.

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  • Aaron

    I have been into running the last couple of years. I worked myself up to do a half marathon. My wife said that she did not want to go to the event because it’s gonna be too cold and too early in the morning. It hurt my feelings, like she didn’t care about my accomplishment. At the running event there were all kinds of husbands, wives, and kids all supporting each other. Even strangers supporting people they don’t even know. This year I have now plans to do one in April when the weather will be warmer and it is close to home, maybe 10 minutes, away and she still doesn’t want to go. It just strikes me as odd to not have her support. We have been married for 15 years, known each other for 26 and have four kids.

    • Samantha Miller

      Welcome to my club. Either learn to enjoy your hobbies solo. Or you will end up having 4 kids grow up without dad in the house since you will be moving out. I am thinking she loves you, not your running. Face the reality and don’t confuse the two. For sake of your kids, man up and learn to love your hobby solo. Don’t ruin and mess up 4 kids physiological health by removing their father away.

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  • Robert L Bridges

    My wife is Not interested my hobby /pastime of playing a pencil & paper tabletop role playing game called Pathfinder Role Playing Game and I firmly believe that she doesn’t respect my hobby because of the connection to Dungeons & Dragons ( D&D ) and the middle 1980’s hysteria about D&D being Satan worship & demonic that was untrue. I do want to be able to share more then just ” I had a good time gaming today”.
    She thinks the dice uses is “weird” ( polyhedral dice – 4, 6, 8,10,12 and 20 sided); to me that is mocking and frankly the dice are not used that often. I try to go “gaming” once a month for 5 hours ( I do arrive at the location early ) to spend time away from her as we are both disabled & together 24/7 and I Need a break from her and being her at home medical provider.
    Role playing gaming is Not Satan worship nor demonic it is actually helpful for me. I have Asperger’s Syndrome & gaming helps me with – social skills, problem solving, teamwork, MATH (yuck), and reading.

    Prior to our marriage I was playing D&D 3.5 Edition in Texas. When I moved from Texas to North Carolina & we got married my role plying gaming ended for 5 years due to no local groups. We moved from NC to SC 2 years ago ( May 2014) and I found on meetup dot com a role playing group that gets together once a month and began playing. My wife knew I was gaming while I was courting her in 2009 but my gaming activity is still an issue due to her non interest and mocking. What do I do ? I am at a loss. I want to be able to share my hobby with her but her attitude about it leaves much to be desired.

    • jonrgrover

      Why hasn’t Jackie Bledsoe repsonded to this post? I have a vary similar situation and would love to read what he has to say. He has responded to many of the others. Why not this one?

      • Robert L Bridges

        Jonrgrover, that is a very good question. I asked this at least 1 year ago. It is very likely that Mr. Bledsoe has no answer or no interest in my dilemma. In my opinion a 5 hour once a moth break from her is healthy and a good outlet. What game do you play ? It may have been how you introduced it to your wife. .
        Dungeons & Dragons ( D&D ) was invented in 1974 & is still being played in 2017. The mass hysteria in the 1980’s about D&D was fueled by media & lies & 1 person’s personal vendetta against D&D.

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  • Gireeshkumar P.Balan

    Some spelling mistakes…Pl correct it.
    1. However, you are to become one. So what do you do when your wife doesn’t want anything to do with something you are vary passionate about and enjoy spending time doing? (Here please use “very” instead of “vary”
    2. So be encouraged if you are constantly going in opposite directions in relation to you favorite interests. (Please use “your” instead of “you”
    I am a writer…that’s why spelling mistakes are disgusting will break your smooth progression of reading….good luck

    • Thanks! I love and appreciate it when my readers catch my mistakes and tell me about it. Thanks for taking the time!

  • Amanda Mckennie

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  • katherine

    My husband enjoys riding dirt bikes (moto/supercross). There aren’t many tracks where we live; the closest one is 45 minutes away. We both work full time and have a 1 yr old. I enjoy watching moto/supercross; I’ll watch the races with him on tv. But he always encourages me to take our son to the track with him while he rides; which sounds great in theory; it’s easy to say “just take the baby with you and come out” when he’s not the one watching/entertaining/feeding the baby. Our baby is still crawling; is dependent on naps (or else he gets cranky); needs to eat regularly; needs cold milk; etc. (lots of planning for an outing such as this). We would be at the track for at least half a day; but the past 2 weekends my husband has been at the track for a whole day. One weekend was because of a race; and the other weekend was because the track was 2 hrs away (so that’s 4 hrs travel time). I went to the track once with him and the baby and it was hot and the baby was getting very antsy and it made it difficult to stay out there for very long….I had to take the baby into town to keep him entertained; so it kind of defeated the purpose of going to the track with my husband. Now, when he rides, it is 1 day out of the weekend; the other day is spent with us. But I struggle with feeling like I never get a break because he is always gone. O, I didn’t mention, that some weekends he is out of town working races on the medical team (out of state). So I am home alone a lot of weekends with our baby after also working a full week 8-5. I start to feel resentment because I don’t feel like I have time to myself and he always gets to go off and do what he loves while I’m stuck at home. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or feel like his mom by telling him “no, I don’t want you to ride this weekend” when I can see the joy on his face and hear the joy in his voice. I’m struggling….suggestions/advice would be appreciated.

    • Have you talked to him about how you feel? I’d start there…just have a loving, truthful, and honest conversation about your feelings.

  • Cheryl

    My husband loves boating and he purchased a boat last June. He always wanted to go boating and I did not. I did go on the boat a bunch of times, but I did not always want to go because my daughter was 6 months then and she didn’t nap on the boat so it was more difficult for me. Then he brought up biking how I never want to go biking with him. He got me a bike ( without talking to me first) last summer when I was pregnant, not exactly the most comfortable situation for me. Why can’t he go biking himself? I do not have to do everything he wants and he’s making it seem like I don’t like doing anything , because its not what he wants to do. help!

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  • gianni454

    my fiance never wants to go to shows with me, whether it be concerts or plays. I always have to find some one to attend. These are things I want to share with him.
    For example, I have an extra ticket today because my friend bailed. I am left searching for someone to join me, or i’ll go alone. He does not want to join me. If the situations were reversed I would go with him.

    • Hi Gianni, I’m sorry to hear that. One of the best things you can do is doing just what you said you would do, if the situation were reversed you’d go with him.

      So, when you have the opportunity to get engaged with his activities do so, if he welcomes it. Perhaps over time and consistently doing that will lead him to see what you are doing and lead him to change.

  • kernitandburnit

    Classic case of two people growing apart or growing together. Call me a cynic, but the whole institution of marriage seems bizarre in this day and age. Why commit to something that lasts decades on end when a lot of folks barely know themselves well enough to see five years into the future? Heck, Millennials are still “finding themselves” well into their 30s. And that’s fine. There should be no rush to the alter.

    • I agree there should be no rush to the alter. However, perhaps it’s not the “institution of marriage in this day and age” that is bizarre…perhaps it’s the people in this day and age and their choices?

      • kernitandburnit

        Possibly! It’s really a matter of societal norms and personal philosophy. Many articles have noted a downturn in divorces in recent years, but you can’t neglect the fact more people are marrying older or not at all.

  • Michelle Kaether

    A great compromise that my Husband and I have found is that, if possible, when one spouse is participating in their hobby, the other brings their hobby with them into the same room and works on that. Obviously this isn’t going to work with certain types of activities, but if he likes watching sports and she likes painting or some other type of craft, it works out quite well! This way, the two people are not entirely separate physically, but each has the time and space to devote to their own project while still being near the other person and spending time around them. It fosters both personal creativity and also mutual bonding, because both people are actively participating in something they love doing while still being near their loved one.

    • TheEndGameIsNear

      So what do you do when one spouse swore they shared your hobbies, all our most? And now its not planning days out on the ocean fishing or walking on the beach but his gaming that is the only hobby?

      What if one spouse loses interest in all shared hobbies and starts gaming and you both gain 60 lbs and one (me) wants to get back into the things we used to enjoy and he says he is too tired from work and has to sleep or game all day.

      That’s that no more sharing rooms, no music making because how do I go make music when we usually do that together and mix our hobby to make something that gives our life meaning? How do I go outside and run off this rage alone? Also I do not want to do my music alone. I want to do it it with him and if he doesn’t then for him to stop acting jealous like its me suggesting an affair when I say I will find people who pick music over gaming. The problem is we have all the same hobbies, and I think he has depression because I have also stopped doing them – but not by choice. And now I am tired of wasting my life waiting on him to want to join me again.

      I can’t pretend that the people we knew when we met don’t notice that we no longer do anything but his gaming hobby anymore and that I am very unhappy over it.

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    How to restore a failing relationship Unlike the movies we see, every relationship will not always been happy forever. Something or factors are always there to drop the relationship you have given all. It may be due to dishonesty, failing to funding, lack of understanding, the requirement of unemployment and so on. It will take more than a lot to save a relationship failing to take i’ve been there. Now I know some ways that can help restore a failing relationship that will work, it forms the background to the latest high ultimate way I know. Understanding: Understanding is a way to restore a default relationship.But as easy as it sounds, it is the most difficult task accomplish.Why is it? let see. In a relationship is like to be that person who has never heard as he or she does not exist. Men feel like everything he says or does is just because they are men and they think they need to be still in charge because men are heard and women feel like they have need to be heard and their opinion counts a lot. If the two can not balance this, I see no hope for this relationship because after so many struggles resulting from misunderstandings they call the end. Stable finances: This is especially for men. It is important to have a stable finance, because a lot of bad things can happen due to financial difficulties. Even if your spouse choose to stay with you through troubled times, you can see that the default and before you know little things and talk about money leads to fight and as you know the relationship falls. But stable finances can restore a failing relationship in a measure before some other factors plans. Couple Counseling: This for a very long time is the last point of almost all couples before the final relationship fall.Here terminal are either restored or destroyed.Couple Council recorded a large amount of success over the years, but does not guarantee that the relationship will remain strong for long time.Studies show that most relationships recorded by the board experienced a positive change for up to 3-5 years before failing again and some even comes experienced no change. I’m not saying couples therapy does not work I simply say, it does not really guarantee a lasting relationship. D’Amour spell: For me, this is the only way that you and someone you love will always be, as they have promised you. My marriage had its largest penalty the board, understanding and all the things I wrote above, and the only thing that worked for me was the Ajayi Ololo fate did for me. It was the only help I seeked that actually worked for me which is why I say is the Ultimate.My friend who advised me to contact a spell caster remained married to her husband for ten years and some months now because of love Ajayi Ololo fate of her.I can not speak of my own because its just been two months .I you want to save your relationship Contact your roulette with this email ajayiololo @ (yahoo). com. Warning: use this email in the regular mail format

  • Gelina Mattson

    We all have different reasons why those of us who contacted Akpe Osilama to help us make our faithful to us some of us did it for lover, because of their children or health condition or even because they wanted not to be alone. For me it was non of those though i love my husband and don’t want to raise our teens alone . The reason why i contacted Akpe Osilama to help me with a spell truly was because my husband was running for one of the seats in the Riksdag,the national legislative body of Sweden. Now i am not going to say if he won or under what party for security reasons i did not ask for a spell to make him win or something NO i just asked for a spell to make him stop being a chronic Womanizer it was going to affect his campaign. I have lived with him for 20 years and after countless occasions of catching him cheating on me i have come to live with him like that though it hurts to death. I wish i knew all along all those years about Akpe the Great spell caster maybe my life would not have been this way. Like i was saying, His womanizing behavior got him into a lot of trouble and if any of those stories where to hit the press it would have destroyed his life and this political career and probably landed him in jail. With all the advise from me and his advisories of his campaigning team it was still not enough to bring him to caution. I went to the extreme to make sure he stops willingly or unwillingly that is i meant with some of his lover and asked to pay them off but they were not ready to let go it. I think he offered them something more that money that even with the amount i offered them, they all refused and believe me it was very surprising and they will turn down a large amount of money. We my husband got to know about it he mad mad at me and gave all sort of threats. I was confused and his opposition were digging to find dirt on him and still was so convinced that they will not find anything but they did only with no evidence that was how lucky we were. Right then i took matters in my hand and contacted Akpe Osilama with the email address i saw on the internet i contacted him and told him what i want him to do for me to make my husband be faithful to me till our dying day and make all those people looking for how to bring down my husband stop. OK note my husband is a very honest man who would not hurt a fly he was just careless and always picked the wrong kinds of woman that get him in trouble. Akpe Osilama asked that i provide 4 kind of item me being so careful employed expert to help me get those materials mailed them over to him. I sent a total some of 3000 dollars when converting from Swedish Krona to American dollars. And it much much cheaper if i had asked him to get them for me. But whats done is done. Just after four day sent me a package, not telling its content but is totally harmless and told me how to make the spell effective. I did as he told me and in two my husband somehow magically broke tires with all the women he was involved with i don’t know how it happen and those people trying to kill his political ambition stopped immediately. I wish i knew this Great man all along my life would have been perfect. His campaign team did not understand how i did it and what i did they were just happy all the worse is past. What wow me the most about Akpe Osilama was that he told me the out come of the election before the election date last year because all this happened last year and just what he said will happen really came to pass. And again i can’t give full info because of security reasons. I little advise for those that are going to contact him via this email (chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast@ (yahoo). com) rewrite to usual email format if you are asked for material to do the spell don’t go about it yourself Because you will waste a lot time and money on it and get to see asking him to get them for you with the total cost you wire to him will save you a lot. You have nothing be be afraid you can trust him with anything Because all he does is help people no matter how hard it may be………

  • Rosla Loveu

    If you have been reading comment online about this spell caster Akpe Osilama it will be easy for me to tell you this that he couldn’t get any more really that he is already. I have come to a conclusion that the gift he possess and his good heart are the strongest most powerful thing i have ever known. He is the most straight forward person and most understanding anyone can ever meet. He did not even ask for my money he just asked me to get materials that will be needed for the spell and that was it. To start, i am an alcoholic and also have a strong addiction for gambling. I lost almost a 100 grand on internet gambling and still did not stop at the same time i was drinking heavily i got suspended form work for a duration of four years because of my drinking problem & my home, i destroyed it with by myself. I was unfaithful to my wife several times and she knew what was happening, i kept yelling over nothing on my girls. My addiction to gambling and drinking was complimentary i was losing a lot of money and still playing and was drinking a lot to calm my nerves. The addiction made me numb my feelings was gone. My wife , my girls saw me as a monster. I remember this day, my wife told me it as my second girl’s birthday the other week and my responds was “grown *** girls don’t celebrate their birthday and if she wanted to she can as well go get a job so she can use want she earn to celebrate every day of her life”. I still can’t believe i said that to my wife and on top of that her sister was right there. My wife was hurt it was written all over her face her face and she told me ” I don’t even know who you are any more where is the man that use to be the human shield of this family ? that man would never had said anything to hurt me or his kids you don’t even care that you are scaring h*** out of this girls? one more of this and i am out” there i told her i don’t need them they were weighing me down that there were burden on me. Those words still hunts me till this day i can believe i really said all those words. My wife left me and off course with the kids and foolish drunk me happily signed the divorce papers. Honestly i don’t know maybe it because i was drunk most of the the day, i felt go i get gambling and kept drinking losing big and winning little waking up with different ladies on my bed every morning. I was like this for two years, and i felt i was on top of the world but my friend made me see i had nothing anymore his wife won’t let him talk to me or hang out with me i gradually felt empty. At a point i saw i needed to get clean and actually committed to my self to AA off course it was hard to admit but with my friends help i got committed. I was six months clean from alcohol and gambling when i discovered my wife was see another man and they were going to get married. I was still in love with her. She was mad when she saw me, she wanted nothing to do with me, my girls hated me because of me they could not even look at me. I tried to get close and got a restraining order. I needed to be my family again i know i ruined it by myself i just wanted to make it up to them i failed then and i wanted to redeem myself to show them the man that use to be the human shield of his family is back i found him again. Akpe Osilama was the man that help me made it happen. It was the course of find a away to reach my wife i found this great spell caster. I did not have the privilege of meeting but like he told other he had helped, some of them met him in real time. He told me after the spell casting my wife , my child will love me like we never fell apart they would know i messed up but they will not care about it any more. I got the materials that was required of me by i got i mean i asked him to help me sending over to him the total cost because most of the materials where only found in the heart of Libya. Just after the spell process was concluded a package was sent to me i can’t disclose its content but it rest easy it could not even harm a fly. He told me what to do with it and all he said will happen happened. I had my family back my wife , my child and i are once again that happy family i lost. I was still on suspension he told he i will get a call to come back to work and i did just after all he did for me. This spell caster he has something that saves lives. Am glad i met him all he promised me he did i wish i could me more grateful. I will leave his email contact like those other person that did in there comment or article which ever this is chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast ‘ at ‘ ‘ yahoo ‘ ‘ dot ‘ ‘ com ~~~`

  • O’Sullivan.A.Eimear

    When your spouse is having an affair, your world becomes a confusing, scary place full of hurt, shame, and anger. You will wonder why this has happened and what action(s) to take. The question of what to do when you learn your spouse is having an affair will have a different answer at different times and under different circumstances. What you should do in your specific situation might be a lot different from what someone else should consider doing, but in most cases, it starts by deciding what you really want to take place, and why you want the answer. If you have decided to divorce quietly, move to another country (or planet) and just forget the whole ordeal, what you should probably do to make that happen smoothly will be a lot different than if you really want to know if you’re likely to still be married to the same partner 10, 20 or more years from now. As a guess, you aren’t online looking for advice that supports that choice, since that path seems pretty clear for most people, once chosen.Assuming that what you are really looking for is advice to help your marriage survive, let me make a few suggestions about what you can actually do.When i met my husband then it crystal clear to me that he was the man of my dream. When i looked at him, i saw perfection. He was tall, respectful, looked at me like i was the only one on earth i mean words cannot describe that moment that is the day we met. It lives on here in my head. I know i was not blind and i know there was nothing really to make me suspect he also like the company of men as well as women. Yes i mean we were sexually active just like every other normal couple who are in love. It never seem like he was avoiding me when i want to have *** like he always comes up with excuse no he was just like every other man. I only got to know when i was two years into our marriage. The first year was healthy for us i mean we were happy and had our first child. It was my sister who caught him passionately kissing another man in his car after spending all night together in the movie theater. He told me he was going out with friends for a drink or two. I was hurt because he was not honest with me and also was cheating on me. Even before i knew, this thing he had going on started before we got married at least he was honest about that. Hadn’t been my sister, i would have been locked in the dark. I have nothing against same sex relationship but when you claim to love a woman and also want to be with a man it becomes a problem i mean you are either with one or the other. You can’t be married to me and expect me to shear you with another be it a woman or a man. We promise we will stay together just us and not us with some one else. I gave him an ultimatum it was either me or his male love i was hoping his love for me will make him pick me but no he ended our marriage simply before he could not pick. H wanted it all i wished i never made him choose then. I was in a traumatized i could not understand how he could be so selfish i mean we have a son together you don’t just walk out like that. I remember i even asked him to go ahead with relationship with his lover as long as he was here with me but then i realized i would be at the losing end in all ways. I was so much in love with him letting him go was not an option for me i mean i knew that if it wasn’t him it was going to me no other. After months of trying and searching with no success to find a way to make him see i am more important than his lover i came across a lot of comments on the internet of how a spell caster Obudun Magonata and how he has help a lot of individual with relationship and life problems. I was skeptical about it but i thought giving it a try would not kill me. What can i say, my experience with Obudun Magonata was real, honest i mean everything that was said about him was nothing but all true. He was an angel my angel send take all my problems from me. He told me he uses his spell casting gift to help the help and he does not ask for anything in return because the gift was bestowed on him without any required from me. He told all i needed was the right materials to cast the spell that was to to provide myself. I shared my problem with him that is how my husband ended our marriage because i was not OK with him have a male lover even when we were married and what i needed him to do for me. All i had to get was the materials needed to caster the spell that was going to get me my husband. I could only find one of the spell materials but he help me get the rest with the total estimated cost i sent to him for help. I don’t know how to explain what happen just after the spell process was concluded and made effective with the parcel he sent to me. I was like a fairy tale i mean i got my love back my family was whole again. My husband picked me he choose to be with me. It been more than six months now all i can see is a man loves and dedicate his self to me he goes every where with me aside work though yeah. Contact him here at spiritsofobudunmagonata”at””yahoo””dot””com” convert email address to the standard email format. Hope you all with similar problem get all help from Obudun Magonata also. I also hope this comment will help a lot of you trying keep your marriage bond strong~~~

  • Messy Jesse

    My hobby is looking at my Hubby’s hairy rectum.

  • carina gomez

    My ex-boy dumped me 6 months ago after I accused him of seeing another woman and insulting him.I want him back in my life but he refused to have any contact with me.He changed his line,block me from sending him email and facebook.I was so confuse and don’t know what to do. So I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimonies of how this powerful spell caster help them to get their ex back. So I contact the spell caster whose name is Dr Shiva and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2days that my ex will return to me, and to my greatest surprise the Second day my ex came knocking at my door and ask me to forgive him.I am so happy that my love is back again. Once again thank you Dr Shiva,you are truly talented and gifted.Email: reunitingexspell@yahoo.com He is the only answer to your problems.He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing his name for the good work he did for me andpeople are still talking about him on the Internet. REUNITINGEXSPELL@YAHOO.COM

  • Carolyn .L. Martinez

    May be someone out there knows what i am talking about and know how its like to be invisible mostly by the one person you are in love with. I was in love an unhappy married man.His marriage was going to limbo and i was the only one there for him. He only saw me as a friend but he was more than that to me. I wish i had the heart to tell him before the went ahead and got married then, may be he would never had be unhappy and may be we both would have been together. Yeah it turned out i was too much or a chicken. Though we are together now literally because of the spell Metodo Acamu a very powerful spell caster i must say helped me cast to make him love me just as i loved him. A lot of people may have different opinion as to if what is did is wrong or right but really, it do not matter because he was in pain and his life was falling to pieces and i was his friend who was in love with him. I knew he was going to be happy with me and he is now. For the first time in three years i have he really happy i mean he tells me every time how free he feels . We are perfect together and i know we are always going to be like this. This would not be the case if not for the spell Metodo Acamu helped me cast. All that was required of me were just the materials that was going to be used to prepare the spell and note Metodo Acamu does not do spells for money i wish i knew why but i do not. He told me that i should get the materials needed for the spell preparing he told me to get them myself and if i can’t find the materials all i had to do was send the total cost for it so he can help me. It wasn’t easy to get them but i found them but it took a lot form me i would advice against getting them yourself because there are not only hard to but also difficult to mail believe me. I am only writing this short article for those out there with problems similar to the one i had. If you want to contact him use this email its what i used metodoacamufortressx@(yahoo). com rewrite this email in the usual email standard form for use!!!!!

  • KT Sanders

    my hubby likes hockey he gets soo excited about it and i dont want to rain on his parade , but i dont like it much iv tried learning about it more but its just not interesting , Now we Never go out because we have two growing boys at home so we switch job roles once a year i work he stays home or he works i stay home so either way were separate , he comes home and we don’t really talk he does his thing i do mine well he finally chose something we could do together found someone to watch the kids an said were going out tonight babe get excited , i said oh yea what are we doing?? he said we are going to a hockey game!!!! all excited and pumped up , first thought in my head..ok no enthusiasm at all but i want to go and have fun so i guess my Q is if the sport isn’t interesting what else could i look to for interest so im not a compleat sour puss ??

    • Thanks for sharing, KT. That is not uncommon. I love sports (basketball and baseball especially). My wife doesn’t at all. One thing you may do is find something surrounding the sport/sporting event or related to it that you find interesting. Maybe the game itself isn’t fun, but maybe going out dressing in team gear (matching or not) is fun. Maybe doing it with another couple where you and the wife can share time while the husbands. At the end of the day, just find something fun with spending time with your man. And I’m willing to bet that if you worked really hard and learned more about the game there may be something interesting to you about it — maybe the backstories on the players or something.

  • Henry Nancy

    My name is nancy, I would tell everyone that I was able to stop my divorce issue and restore my marriage again, because I did not want it to happen. i do not know what came over my husband who was filling for divorce, I tried to convince me otherwise as I said and did not listen to me, I had no choice but to seek help from a caster and I am now glad I did. Because if it was not for the help of spell, do not know what would have become of me now because she loved me so much that I could not stand it losing my husband. The spell worked like magic with the way and manner change and my husband started to show love instead it was planning divorce. i too happy that everything is in place for me now. I would recommend the use of spell to anyone going through marriage problems and wants to end it. should email Dr.OLOKUM in (LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM) i was helping restore my marriage began.

  • AnaBanana

    how much time should be allotted to do these hobbies per week? Separately? My husband enjoys online gaming and I cannot wrap my mind around him spending equal hours of a p/t job doing this hobby. We are having quite a bit of arguments re: the subject, and cannot find a common ground.

    • Hi Ana, great question. How much time per week is really relative to each marriage.

      To best answer that question, it’d be helpful to have more info through asking more questions. Of course, too much of anything can be a bad thing. A short-answer/solution would be to find a way to discuss it and try to agree upon some boundaries. Perhaps over date nights or other times you spend together, but not necessarily in the moment.

      • AnaBanana

        My outlet is working out, I like to do it 6 days a week. At least an hour sometimes more, sometimes less. I tried to offer the same and he said that doesn’t work because the kind of game he plays doesn’t work like that. I work M-F, he works T-S, so he gets Mondays off, to be at home alone, to play and he still wants more time outside of Mondays. There have been nights he came to bed at 12, 2 or almost 3am because he was on his computer; when he had started at like 9pm. He thinks I am being unfair, and I am feeling like I am 2nd. He says I’m not, but I feel like his actions tell me different. He said he needs this time to be happy…currently neither is with the bickering re: the issue.

        • Robert L Bridges

          I play online role playing games but I set myself a limit as to how long – 2 or 3 hours and take breaks as needed. The time spent playing depends on the game in question as some online games have very involved in game “quests”. Do talk to him about an appropriate boundary as to how much time he spends online gaming but also set a limit as to bedtime. My P.O.V – 3 AM is not a healthy bedtime.

          • TheEndGameIsNear

            Tell me about it. I no longer make weekend plans. I have no friends and am married to a tech guy addicted to gaming. Tonight he woke me up at 3am as I have taken to making my bedtime 9 or 10 pm. He is OBLIVIOUS. He never got that I don’t want to go to bed at 9, I am just dead BORED.

            He works 60 hour weeks. All that and he gets on the computer from 7 to about 11 to 1 am. Weekends it is way worse, he stays up gaming and I wake up at 6 because of his on call schedule during the week and am forced to stay dead silent in my pajamas till he wakes up closer to noon. I can’t live the rest of my life this way. I want my husband back.

            We live 4 miles from the ocean and 30 miles from LA and we literally have No life to speak of.

            There has got to be a support group. My issue is he suuports me and that he gets enraged and throws meltdown style tantrums like a drug addict when I suggest he cut down gaming.

            Right now i just keep the peace but I am growing unhappy and starting to seek ways outside my marriage to console my lonely. It won’t be long before he realizes it is really almost to late.

          • LBD

            You need to sock aside money as quickly and quietly as you can and then be prepared to divorce him. Gamers are like Gamblers and Drug Addicts. It will only get worse. Then he will lose his job. Then he will rely on you to support him and his addiction. Been there, done that. Cost me 100,000.

          • Robert L Bridges

            NO, we True Gamers are not like gamblers & addicts. A Once a month out going “gaming” of the house for 6 to 7 hours or less is Not addictive and I have skipped months. We are together nearly 24/7

    • TheEndGameIsNear

      Its the same for me. He woke me up at 3 am gaming and I went to bed on a Friday night at 10. We have no kids and we are under 35.

      He didn’t make plans with me, but with his PC. He makes good money on a tech salary but he doesn’t seem to have time for his new wife, me.

      I am about to make plans without him knowing for revenge. I am sick of his addiction, his gaming is like a bag of needles.

      Mine works 60 hour weeks in IT then comes home and goes directly to the laptop or is on call on his iphone and gaming is like a second job.. I can’t take it anymore. He never realized the problem in our marriage is his gaming as it led to neglect. I work in accounting. I feel like seeing him without a USB IV’d into his arms is sort of like running into a celebrity. If it were another woman I would confront her.

      But it isn’t even that, now how miserable am I?

    • Davies M

      Hello my child you are welcome to lord masuka spell temple a temple were all kinds of problem is solved with the great power of lord masuka and my ancestors, my child i must let you know that you are in the right place and at the right time for help i have help a lot of people bring their lover back and today they are happily living with their loved ones testifying about the great power lord masuka for the joy they have brought back to their life and you are next to testify my child i also want you to know that my spell is fast and very much active and with out any consequences, so i will help you make your partner love you and come back and never to leave you again as i have done for others okay so provide me with the following information to enable me cast the spell
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  • davisha

    i want to use this medium to testify of how i got back my ex boyfriend. After 4 years in relationship with my husband with 2 kids, he suddenly started going out with other ladies and coming home late, most at times drunk and each time i confront him about this it turns out to be fight, he even threatened to divorce me severally, I was emotionally devastated because i was not sure of what to do to make him love me again, I tried all i could to make him love me again but all proved abortive until i saw a post on the internet on how a spell caster Dr. Zaki helps people restore back their broken relationship/marriage at first i doubted this but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell caster via email he helped me cast a re-union spell and within 5hours my husband came to me apologizing and today we are happily together again. Contact this great spell caster on your marriage and relationship problems at dr.zakispellhome@gmail.com

  • Alicia

    I am from Australia, i want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup, my boyfriend broke up with me last year, i did all i could to get him back but failed until i saw a post on a love forum about a spell caster who helps people regain back lost love at first i doubted if it was real because i never believed in spells but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell caster via email, he helped me cast a spell and i got back my love within 72hours (3days) Contact this spell caster today for your relationship or marriage issues via this email ikedispiritualtemple@gmail.com

  • sal

    I am struggling with this as my husband of 17 years, only real interest is to watch tv or eat out, have sex, go the movies etc (sedentary). which has lead to us both being obese and unhealthy and obviously not a good example for our 2 children (17 and 10 years old). In 2010 I decided to cut way back on outside activities to stop fighting and spend time doing mostly what he wanted inside the house (watching tv and eating, having sex) and I gained about 40 pounds and was depressed. In 2012 my Dad got sick, died while I watched and snapped me into the present moment and since then, I decided to take better care of myself and quit wasting time and have gradually been making adjustments towards a healthy lifestyle and long for a life where our entire family is active and we can comfortably take vacations and live an active full life travel, do things outdoors together like yardwork, hike, etc. I really don’t think he wants that and I am ready to file for divorce. He is adamant that even though he is over 150 pounds overweight that he is healthy and that he would lose weight if he had better reason to, or that he can when he wants to, etc… He has spent lots of money on quick solutions/gym memberships, etc that don’t work. We have never had common too many common interests and when I spend time away from home being active (boating, travelling, spending time out with friends or with the kids), it is a problem because he feels like I am not focused on our relationship. I could go on and on.. I was in counseling for years, he refuses to go. I quit going because it was mostly about how I could communicate with him to not argue and how to defuse situations and run the household without conflict. Any feedback you could give me to get him more interested in living a life instead watching others live one on TV would be great. I love him, but I also love myself and my kids and know we deserve a better life.

    • I am sorry to hear that. I can’t adequately address all of what you mentioned in your comment, but I will offer this. Be encouraged and be consistent. As I said, there is so much more to go into, but won’t be able to do it here.

      We (my wife and I) are considering doing some private coaching and counseling services for our readers who express concerns like this, and a blog post, blog post comment, or something like that may not be enough. Would that be something that interests you?

      • Rose Marylove

        I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster
        once when i went to Africa in may this year on a business summit. I
        meant a man who’s name is DR ABIZA he is really powerful and could help
        cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic
        money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a
        living testimony because the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks
        before our wedding and my life was upside down all because our
        relationship has been on for four years. I really loved him, but his
        family was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this
        spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of
        things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i
        just gave it a try. And in 8 days when i returned to UK, my boyfriend
        (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that
        everything had been settled with his mom and family and that he also got
        a new job interview. I didn’t believe it because the spell caster only
        asked for my name and my boy friends name and all i wanted him to do.
        Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and
        my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His
        email is {DRABIZASPELLTEMPLE20@HOTMAIL.COM} you can also contact him for
        help.

        Vera Williams.

  • margaret

    HI My Name is Janice Margaret and i am from United state of America(USA), I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Priest Andrew did for me , this man has just brought back my lost family to me with his great spell casting, i was married to this Man called Brown we were together for a long time and we loved our self’s but as time goes on, he left me and told me he can’t continue anymore then i was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email: priestandrew91@yahoo.com. then you wont believe this when i contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost Husband back , thank you once again Priest Andrew for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems, and you need a lost love back or any kind of problems for you can contact him today on his email: priestandrew91@yahoo.com,and he will also help you as well, he is a nice man.

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  • Heath Wiggins

    Just browsing revelant posts and happened upon this one. Seemed interesting. The two became one — but not each other. I like that one Shawn. Finding something we both don’t know how to do and doing it together. I like that one too JB. I might revisit that one. My wife and I took swing dance lesson back in the day. That was fun. But after being married 15yrs, we are looking for something new and creative to do together. We’ve done all the standard ones that most married couples have done. And I’m looking for that brand-newness! That, “Oh no yall didn’t! Oh yes we did”-style activities that we can do together. Yesterday we were talking about what we are going to do for vacation this year/and for our anniversary in Oct. We go nothing – because we’ve pretty much done it all. We even talked about doing a Best Of revisit to our favorite destinations. We need som new ideas. That’s my challenge for you two – Mr. & Ms. family blog people-lol. Whatcha got for me? And bring the funk! (looking for input from both Shawn and JB)
    Thanks

    • Hey Heath! Thanks for sharing. We may be able to learn a thing or two from you and your wife. I’d love to hear more. Your question/challenge is a good one. I’m adding this to my post ideas. Hopefully I will have something new for ya! 🙂

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  • I think women probably fall into the trap of only doing what their husband is interested in more than the other way around. I think it is essential to have separate interests/hobbies as a way to maintain one’s own identity. Even though “two become one”, they do not become *each other*. I know that if I was not as independent as I am and didn’t have my own interests, I’d be a little lost, especially because due to the nature of my husband’s job, he works long hours.

    • Thanks for sharing Kelly. When couples respect the other’s interest, whether they share the same or not, then the the hobbies can be enjoyable and stress free. That is what many look to get from their hobbies…fun and an outlet.

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